My boyfriend’s birthday is coming up and he wants me to buy him a sex toy. I bought him a fleshlight for Xmas (Tenga Spinner) which he loves but I’m trying to find something different.
Is there anything else I can buy him other than a fleshlight? It can be for solo or couples use.
If anyone has any recommendations for any other fun sexual gifts that would be great too (e.g. I’ve bought him sex cheques before and roleplay outfits).
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edit – he’s not into anal toys btw.
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Maybe cock sleeve fukin machine or ask him to pick out of a few haha
Cock ring or a vibrator he wears on his cock – fun for you as welll!
Maybe another fleshlight that’s customized.
This is a better question for /r/sextoys, but, if money is no object, my vote is the [Orctan](https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/male-masturbators/p/orctan-rechargeable-silicone-roller-male-masturbator–/a45760g82366.html?utm_source=uncrate.com&utm_medium=PC&utm_content=Uncrate_OPA_PC_1275_A&utm_term=1-1&utm_campaign=PC-OPA-LHOCP-LH-LHOrc-LHcom-AAE-TOP-GEN-eng-USCA-COM) But it appears to be on sale at LOVEHoney right now. My second place would be [Hot Octopuss Jett](https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/male-masturbators/p/hot-octopuss-jett-extra-powerful-vibrating-masturbation-sleeve/a40930g74574.html). If he is up to a little prostate fun, I would go with the [We Vibe Vector](https://www.we-vibe.com/us/vector?sscid=51k7_crbjn&utm_source=ShareASale&utm_medium=aff&utm_campaign=1735009_855596) or [The Lovense Edge 2](https://www.lovense.com/adjustable-prostate-massager). They both have apps that allow you to get in on the fun by controlling the speed and type of vibration from your phone. And you could take turns, though without a prostate, it might be a little less stimulating for you.
I mean if you want to go a little more extreme there’s stuff for prostate play. Depends how kinky y’all are.
Cock rings for days… Ball stretchers too
Cock rings are fun, an adjustable one that’s like a string with a clasp so you can fit it over just your cock or your cock and balls could be fun. There’s a whole variety of them out there.
You could also look at the small strokers that you could fit over his cock and still work his head with your mouth or hands.
I think it’d be cool if my partner did an all over shave / wax (she’s a trimmer) as a birthday surprise. I’d also be super happy to be told “you can have my ass for your birthday” – normally off limits.
e-stim Coyote, Blissful.
You could totally go for couples gifts too. Like maybe a bandage starter kit (if you’re both open to that), vibes for partnered use, or maybe a wedge. OH! You could totally get some remote-controlled vibrating panties and make a day of it!
Ya’ll laugh but a chastity cage is awesome. Edging level +9000
A good bj he don’t want gadgets for sex ..
This is sort of a gift for you also, but what about a couples vibrator? …like the we vibe?
The Manta
I’m curious if he already has anything in mind when asking you for another sex toy while already having a fleshlight. Maybe he wants something for his butt…have you two played around with that? I wouldn’t want to drop a ton of money on a nice anal toy if I wasn’t sure though.
Coupons.
Call up a business card place and order 100, “present for a no questions asked BJ” or whatever.
Better than a fleshlight for sure.
Ok I know this sounds like a fleshlight, but it operates and feels differently. My husband loved these “eggs” I bought him (for Easter HAHA). They’re internally textured mini-fleshlight type toys that are really easy to use and super stimulating. They’re also pretty cheap to replace once they get gross. I’ve really loved using them on him for handjobs because it still feels like a handjob, where a fleshlight is more like a sleeve. Enjoy!
https://www.amazon.com/TENGA-EGG-VP6-Portable-Masturbator-Variety/dp/B002DE6SWA
His best gift should be you tbh.
Nothing can mimic the sensation of sex with a partner.
Wrap yourself with a bow, and you’ll see his smile
Buy him a sexy escort. Make a whole night of it. Out to dinner, the three of you, then back home for some fun..
Memorable. 😉😁
Butt plug or remote control vibrating egg toy and play with his cock at the same time
If you want to give a “sexual gift”, think something that shows enthusiastic participation instead. Lingerie, absorbent sex blankets, wedges, swings, coupons, games, restraints, etc.
Yes!
– cockrings, lots of different kinds, my bf has a thick/broad one and loves the tight all-over squeeze it gives him
– vibrating cock rings (good for you too)
– couples vibrators, lots of different options
– fancy fleshlight (Max 2 by Lovense. Trust me)
– vibrators, not just For Her
– stroker, like a silicone ring that you can jerk him off with, makes blowjobs extra special
– penis pump, not just to make his dick bigger (although that’s fun too) but the suction feels really good for him
– bondage stuff, if you’re into that
We are big into toys, so if you want specific recommendations or more info on any of the above, just ask 😊
P.S – I don’t know a man who wouldn’t love a long, slow, lubey handjob. Time and attention are the best gifts out there.
Bring a boy home
Depending on how open he is, sounding stuff can be fun to play with.
Give him a threesome with your hot gf!
Toys for both of yall could be like restraints(soft rope, satin ribbon, hand cuffs if you’re really nasty bar restraints) and crops or other sensual pokey tickley things, and specific sex sheets/candles so yall have a signal for “it’s about to go down”(you should spend a lot of money on the sheets highest thread count possible. It should feel like you’re fucking in lotion).
Toys for him could be like a cocktail ring like most people said. Nipple clamps if he’s in to that or a blind fold. I saw a tiktok of a flashlight that was on a suctioncup with an arm so it could jerk you off.
Get him a prostate massager! Or if he’s never done any butt stuff some small butt plugs. If he says he’s not into it, go and kiss his butthole, I promise he will change his tune
You can go for a onahole. Specifically zxy meiki onahole.
Anal toys
Silicone life-size booty,puss,thighs “doll”.
Ask to see his browser history for the porn he likes, that should give you a direction.
The HANDY!
Love that thang
It depends on your budget.
But apparently the Venus 2000 is amazing, it’s made by the same people who make the Sybian machine.
I highly recommend the Arcwave Ion for a cool toy. It used the air pulse technology that is used in the Womanizer style toys, but adapted for penis owners. I like it a ton. Also, classic wands like the Hitachi are fun to use.
Check out the Fun Factory Manta. It’s a penis vibrator that’s great for solo play and even better for couples – use during sex, oral, or whatever other fun ideas you have.
Maybe a prostate massager 😉