Ok so long story short, about a month ago I was at a party and a lady came up to me to talk and we started talking, I noticed that everytime I was at the bar to pay for my drink, and she would often initiate conversation asking strange things for example “do you think I’m dangerous” like in a flirty way, she then asked for my name, we talked for a bit on the outside, but I felt our conversations where starting to shift on a deeper level, not boring surface level stuff.
When I was leaving, I asked for her number and she gave it to me.
A couple days after I text her, and she seemed pretty responsive and we had a pleasant conversation.
I’m not a big texter, after a week that I didn’t write to her, I wrote to her after Easter to ask how it went and, we were talking about what we did, I mention a venue where I went to an Easter party, and she said she would love to go with me. So I shoot my shot and asked her out for a Friday, she had a birthday planned and was unavailable, didn’t offer an alternative date though (after this I was 80% sure she wasn’t interested) but said she would have loved to go out with me, I said no worries and I went quiet for a couple of weeks, and decided to ask her out again, this time she was on a roadtrip, so she wasn’t physically able to go on a date. She jokingly got upset and said that I should have asked way before, I replied wishing her a good trip.
I am almost sure she isn’t interested, so I respect the decision, and no one owes me anything.
What are your thoughts on this story? I just want to learn to learn from this experience and have a outside opinion.
3 comments
Why do u keep ignoring her for a week?
I think shes the one who felt rejected. You didnt talk for two weeks. She’s not interested in you and most people these days wouldnt be either. That behaviour isn’t really acceptable anymore.
It’s odd to think that she would be “available” on a whim after not hearing from you for two weeks, and you consider that rejection on her part.