My girlfriend and I have a really good relationship. The thing is, when she’s upset she goes from an obsessive, very loving and caring girlfriend into somebody who’s almost a completely different person. She didn’t talk to me for 30 minutes because I didn’t give her my full attention because I was playing a game on my phone when we hung out, which I’ve done before and apologized for. I understand why she is upset, I don’t think it constitutes the reaction she gave me though. When she’s upset she doesn’t talk to me for long periods of time, then when I try to talk it out and communicate she either loses her temper or disregards everything I say and keeps making what I did seem worse. I’m not a perfect boyfriend, nobody is. But I try to do what she wants and what I want and create an even balance. She just seems to want me all to herself without regard of what I want to do or if I need alone time or friend time or game time. I see her every day and it still doesn’t seem like enough for her unless I give her 100% undivided attention all the time. How do I talk to her about this and what can we do to fix it? I want this to work out but it’s hard when it’s a situation like this.
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Get over it and ask for a blowie, at least u have a gf.