We’ve been together for a few months and this is the third time he does this. He will completely switch on me. From being very loving and affectionate to absolutely nothing at all. He will ignore me all day, no good morning/night texts, won’t ask to hang out, will not say love you, he will just act so cold and honestly you’d talk to a stranger nicer than how he does with me during those times.
When I ask about it, he denies and says nothing is different.
I’m honestly at my wits end with it, it’s just so hurtful to have someone you love talk to you like that especially since I’ve repeatedly told him I can’t handle someone being cold with me.
How am I supposed to deal with this?
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Boy, bye…
How does he ignore you all day ? He is ignoring you coz of work ? Or ignoring you on weekend while you two are together…
Need more info
>I’ve repeatedly told him I can’t handle someone being cold with me
You need to decide how many times you’re willing to repeat yourself and not see any change/improvement. If you can’t set boundaries in dating, you will get eaten alive.
It’s only been a few months.. this isn’t your long-time husband. Just move on. Everyone gets cold sometimes, but if it’s a consistent thing, you shouldn’t put up with that.