So I started dating this guy (15M) and me (15F) so we have been dating for a year and we have kissed and I’ve dry thumped him quite a few times. He’s like a really quite and shy funny guy. Though he loves me a lot he can’t express it when he’s around me. He does try holding my hand while we’re in the cab or putting his arm around me. But it’s like I’m the one who get turned on . How do I make him turn on? I wanted to try a few things to make him turn on if y’all have any tips it would help me too . (No touching of the private parts tho)
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In sorta public? Kissing – lips, neck, earlobes. Words – “can’t wait till we get home”, whispered in his ear.
Just, make sure you’re reading the room and he’s cool with it.
>I wanted to try a few things to make him turn on if y’all have any tips it would help me too .
Just ask him whether he’s getting turned on or feeling anything. As you both are quite young it’s natural to feel shy and getting to know each other’s thoughts could be helpful. Take things slow and don’t rush the same.
>(No touching of the private parts tho)
IDK if this means you not touching his private parts, as you’ve mentioned dry humping. But anyway, things such as Kiss, cuddle, smooch, make him do breast play, nipple play and ass grab(if you’re ok with the same) could be helpful. You could try finding both your erogenous zones and could try stimulating the same.
You are young – don’t worry too much about this. You are likely just more “mature” then him right now. Give it time.
Yup! They offered that while I was in 7th
Take things slow! You are both so young. Enjoy this phase of butterflies in your tummy. It’s the best feeling to have that want.. but you don’t have to act on it right now. Communicate to him your feelings and thoughts but try not to push it. He may just not be there mentally yet. That’s okay. Enjoy being young and having these feelings!