So me and my gf would really like to try some like bondage stuff, and I’m not sure how to exactly start off. We said we would start it with a blindfold, then maybe work our way up, but Idk like what positions I could put her in and like what the possibilities could be.
She does like to be very submissive with me and usually I’m 100 percent in control unless she wants to suggest something. Usually I pin her arms behind her back, and grab her hair and fuck her from behind like forcefully and hard.
Another thing is our dirty talk consists of her being for me and only for me (which I love), she’s like my good girl, and it’s very corny stuff but in the heat of the moment it’s the best. I also like will grab her face and just kiss it at will.
Idk how to start tho
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I suggest visiting /r/BDSMAdvice and checking out their guides and FAQs.
Look into some tutorials. There are even YouTube videos for different bondage styles, etc.
Having direct conversations in a sober, non-sexual environment about what specifically you find or do not find appealing about certain acts will be instructive. Is she submissive, or does she like the idea of you being dominant? Stuff like that isn’t immediately or intuitively obvious, and those are two very different things. Talking about stuff like that will sort of auto-direct what directions you want to try.