How does one cope with having such a high libido ? My husband and I have sex very often but I still find myself masturbating and daydreaming about sex constantly! Like, I can walk by a man in a grocery store and play out an entire sex scene in my mind.

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  1. Sounds like you need a side piece 😉

    Jk but honestly idk, your husband really can’t keep up? Is the dildo/masturbating not enough for you? I don’t think fantasizing about other people in public is that weird! I mean, I do it! Haha It can be okay to have a high libido, as long as you can still focus on normal daily activities!

  2. I’ve been there personally, but for me I was just losing interest, we didn’t have the best relationship and even though I always initiated it, I didn’t enjoy the sex much, so I was constantly turned on outside of it and even by things other than him.

  3. I mean the day dreaming isn’t too terrible, I do that myself and usually find out a lot of people like to imagine how X person would be in bed even if they’re total strangers. If anything i’d say let the –imagination- go free and turn that into something you wanna do in your actual sexual relationship.

    As a guy whos also high libido. The best advice I can give you is to learn ways to increase the quality of your sex. Yeah, 2-4 times a day would be freaking heaven for me. But having REALLY good sex 3-4 times a week? Just as good.

  4. Have you communicated that with your husband? Even if you guys have just finished having sex and you’re still daydreaming about it and wanting more, I’m sure he’d love to please you even if he’s spent such as going down on you etc.

  5. Can he continue giving you oral? Or use dildos or vibrators on you? Play out a fantasy in a car with your man and have him take care of you or use toys in a parking lot without no one knowing.. Go to fitting rooms and take care of yourself safely. Go to the woods with you man and make sure you guys are alone and take care of yourself in front of him. Basically go out and be adventurous sexually. Even if he can’t, sex toys and adventures are your best friend!!

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