So I’m f(27), seeing a M(33) and it’s going well but I can never go for round two cause it gets a little swollen and it burns when he tries to put it back inside for round two (he hasn’t made me cum yet even with foreplay, so I feel like that’s also an issue that I’m not wet enough)
Previously, when I was seeing this other guy, he used to make me cum before he would put himself inside me. That obviously helped and lessened the swollen bit but not entirely.
Is this something everyone experiences or is something wrong with me and I should get checked? And what should I do differently??
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Do you use lube?
Depends, how long is round one taking? We can take a pretty good pounding down there but even our pussies have their limits. If for some reason this is a super long session that could be contributing.
Longer foreplay, orgasming first (as you mentioned), make sure you’re good and turned on before initial penetration, pee between rounds.
Eliminate possible irritants too, change condoms and lube, if you’re using them now, to eliminate those as a factor.
Since this is more than one partner, although less so with this one, I’m leaning towards not enough lubrication. Micro tears occur and then things start stinging and swelling. You could also have thin vaginal tissue, especially if your hormones are either out of whack or you’re on hormonal birth control, which makes it easier to get tears to begin with. Try a few high quality lubes and schedule an appointment with your gyno to get everything checked out.
>but I can never go for round two cause it gets a little swollen
If that’s a long and rough first session, then that’s not something unusual. Cumming before penetration by other methods such as fingering and oral is a good choice here, as your partner seems to take quite a long time in PIV and even that doesn’t make you cum.