I don’t if I’m the rebound guy or if I’m the “back-up” date or both. I’ve noticed throughout most of my dating life women tend to see me as someone to unload their baggage on. Like within the first dates or the first time we have sex they’ll tell me all their trauma. Then they either ghost after or send the obligatory “sorry but I’m still healing” text. Do I come off as the safe/stable option or?
Would like to hear y’all’s thoughts? 🙂
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I can guess what age range you’re attracting
So you’re a “nice guy”, amirite?
Your age
You could be attracting emotionally unavailable women in general, which can occur because you’re unavailable yourself, you might lack self-esteem, or a part of you wants to ‘fix broken birds?