Hey guys ! Me(25) and my GF(25) have been in a relationship for past few years . We are a happy couple that respect each other and have a very good sex life. But recently my GF said she wants to try the dom sub relation with me being dom .
She said lately she’s been finding it extremely hot being dominated in bed . I’m a pretty chill guy and have never had any dom characteristics, but I still want to try it. Not just for her but also to experience it myself. But I’ve got no experience in it neither does she.
I have discussed it with her on how she wants to get dominated in particular and what gets her horny the most. But I also wanted to talk to you guys on Reddit (especially from this page as I’ve seen several posts with great suggestions) to see if I could get a few useful suggestions on this .
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Each woman likes to be dominated differently, but there’s a common denominator in domination:
Simply put, you need to use her for your own pleasure. Women love to feel desired, so making your gf do whatever you want to pleasure yourself tells her she drives you crazy with lust and can’t contain yourself.
For example, my gf sometimes wants to feel like I’m just using her to get off, so pinning her down or bending her at 90° to enjoy her body drives her crazy.
You need to use just enough force to overpower her if she puts up a little resistance, nothing violent, and you have to be assertive and sure of yourself.
It goes without saying that everything happens with her consent.