So my amazing man told me recently that he wants to try something he’s seen in porn. Yes we both know porn isn’t real life and we have a very healthy communicative sex life – he is well aware it might not feel as cool as it looks to him. My attitude is, what’s the harm in trying just for fun?
I love giving him blow jobs and do it all the time and I love swallowing; the variation he wants to try is when he gets close he wants to step back just a little and he wants me to open my mouth and he wants to finish himself and try to aim it into my mouth. If any gets on my lips or cheeks, I’ll either lick it or use my fingers to scoop it up and suck it off my fingers.
Sounds fun and yum, I’m totally down to try it. My question is, anything I can do to make this a huge success? I want him to feel like OMG my dream came true, I want him to feel like I gave him an amazing gift.
Any tips? Dos, don’ts, suggestions, advice?
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Eye contact
Stick tongue out maybe?
Enthusiasm
Dirty talk – come up with a short good line to say right before getting it; can be something from the porn he likes if he shares it with you or something you make up – practice how you’ll say it (will you be sultry/breathy? high pitched excited? what does he like? You eating it, begging for it, more on the slutty side or emphasis on craving him personally?) Don’t look like you’re rushing the line, but at the same time you don’t want to take too long b/c “he’s gonna blow!” 😂
Dress like a hooker and kinda sorta role play as one. Let him objectify you to enhance your emotional reactions
Do it, if you like the idea of pleasing him that way
But one pro tip: avoid cum in your eyes, it burns
How can I avoid cum in my eyes?! I’ve read that it is no fun.
I (jokingly) suggested swimming goggles or science lab glasses to him. He laughed. I laughed. But no solution was agreed upon haha
In this case, porn is actually real life. This is a pretty common part of sex for lots of couples.
Give him a really good edging session,stop a few times, and tell him to demand you obey when he’s gonna blow
Also beg him to do it as dirty as you’re comfortable
Ok so an accidental success along these lines — one time my wife tried to suck me ALMOST all the way without finishing me, except she slightly miscalculated: a moment after pulling away, I was trying to hold back but then felt one ‘pulse’ which hit her on the neck and chin.
In that split second she realized her mistake, dove forward and with 2-3 quick pumps of her mouth she pulled away and I exploded — all over her. She leaned back on her hands and looked down at herself, it was running down her chin, breasts, her abs — she was glistening all over and she looked absolutely stunning.
This was at least 15 years ago and I still think about it often. If you can rock this look, the memory of you looking like that will be forever burned into his memory.
It was one of the best sexual experiences I ever had… and one of the shortest refractory periods: 5 minutes later I was railing her on the bedroom floor while she was laughing in total disbelief.
Eye contact, ask him if there’s things he likes to hear, maybe even watch some porn he likes to start so you can get a feel of what really turns him on about it!
Don’t let it get in your eyes! Burns like hell!!!
From a former porn actress, wear glasses or a blindfold, you don’t want it getting in your eyes if at all possible!
If my SO was open and enthusiastic as you seem to be I’d probably bust before first contact. Don’t overthink it. Just let your excitement for the activity show and he’ll be in heaven
come up with a short good line to say right before getting it.
You can fulfill only that fantasies what he tells you. The other things are just surprises. If so.
What you can do as you’re blowing him come up for air and gasp by staying down for longer. Say “I want tour cum baby”. Also when he does cum move back; get ready, start bouncing on your knees not too much, but making it kook like you eagerly want it. Keep strong eye contact, stick your tongue out and say “give it to me”, grab one or both of your breasts. say things like “give it to me”, “I want your cum all over me” or say anything else that turns him on. This next one is the the most important one. Don’t let him cum for a few days the load will be much bigger. When he does cum you could say things like “aaaaahh”, “mmmmmm”, “I love your cum all over me”, “your cum tastes delicious”. Hope I could help, have fun.
REMEMBER GLASSES!!! Cum burns like hell in the eyes.
He needs to hydrate very well and tease and edge all day. Build up as much as possible so he can shoot his load across a distance with enough ropes of cum to correct aim as needed.
Do it in the shower in case he gets it in your hair
So, I’ve been down this route on the other side.
He would greatly benefit from a bit of preparation too. There are vitamins and supplements you can take to produce more volume. The last thing you want is to get hyped up for this and then it just kinda dribbles at the end. If he wants to really live out the full effect on his end, he’s going to want to drink lots of water, but he’ll also want to get a healthy supply of zinc and you can supplement with ‘lecithin’ and ‘pygeum’. Snacking on a lot of celery a few days before will help greatly too. In my experience, zinc and celery seemed to be the strongest contributor.
This doesn’t seem hard to mess up
I would say just be sexy and patient. If he can’t get off at first go back to sucking slowly like you really want it. Only thing that causes issues with this sort of fantasy is feeling like you’re letting your partner down if you can’t cum when expected even though they’ve really turned you on.
You bring the glasses, he’ll bring the helmet.
Anyone else expect something a bit crazier?
Have him do male kegals and drink loads of water during the day.
You’re willing to do it, so that’s 80% of the problem solved. Where it will go sideways is when you’re unexpectedly hit in the face / mouth / eye / wherever with hot ropes of flying cum.
Try and get used to getting splashed in the face and keeping your hot porn face going. I suggest work on simulated (if not a little overwhelming) shots to the face in a the shower. Get the spraying water lined up with your general mouth area and practice your sexy face until it’s second nature.
Can I join
This is pretty normal. Have fun 😂. Close your eyes or keep them looking downish. Chin up, tongue out, eyes down or looking at him (either way they aren’t in direct line of what’s about to happen) usually works for me lol.
Just Do. Not. Get. It. Into. Your. Eyes!
That shut stings so bad & itll be red for quite awhile. It’s like all the little swimmers think they won the egg jackpot & attack your eyeball
Edge him. That will make it 1000% more enjoyable.
Do not get that shit in your eye. That’s all.
As Gucci said “they call me guccimane Picasso Bc i painted their face”
He doesn’t have to be a foot away, have him pull out, like 3 inches from your mouth. Open wide.
Just have fun. It’s no different from every day sex for you guys. Why treat it differently thsn you normally would? You’re pumped, he’s pumped, it’s mutual, just have fun!
Use lipstick to paint a target! Concentric circles.
I’ve done it a bunch. Just encourage him before by telling him how much you want his huge load in and your mouth and how much it turns you on too, then, when he gets close open wide and push your tits up and tell him to do his best to hit the target but if not, you’re not gonna waste a drop!
Have him take Steel Libido Reds for 2 weeks and don’t masterbate until the money shot.
Open wide!
Dang this is a confusing collection of suggestions 😂 Eye contact! Close your eyes! Eye contact! Don’t let it get in your eyes! Stare into his soul! Protect your eyes at all costs! Lol.
I’m super excited to do this and will report back (once my vision is restored).