My girlfriend [20f]and I have been having sex for a while now. I [22m] am normally the more dominant one in the bedroom. Just recently when we were having sex she kept asking me if I could call her a good girl, I kept saying no to tease her and make her beg. This backfired however when she eventually grabbed me by the balls really hard and started squeezing and told me to call her a good girl. In pain, I still said no and she started squeezing even harder, I was in so much pain at this point that I yelled “you’re a good girl!!” Like three times then she let go. Even though I was in a good deal of pain, it actually turned me on a little bit. Is this something safe that can be explored more? Also does anyone else have experience with this happening to them?
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All fun and games until she smacks them with a hammer.
Spanking is that way..
Could be a form of cbt
I’m guessing that you probably like her being dominant and forcing your compliance.
Or you like being hurt in some way. Pain is pleasure etc.
You might wanna freeze some of your sperm before exploring this any further
Sounds like you got a wild one – a keeper for sure lol
Head over to r/bdsmadvice. Read up on the beginner’s guide, talk about fantasies and limits (most important! This was a lucky turn-on for you, for others it would have been assault) and explore switching through the roles.
Could be the start of a ballbusting kink. It was something I resisted and always thought of extreme. But it’s actually a lot of fun. The way your girl is using it to get what she wants falls into the femdom category, which is also extremely hot.
Don’t know where but I have memories of seeing a full category of porn years ago that the guy lays down and girls with heels step on his balls.. so there’s that
Maybe you’re a brat and like to get punished.
My current partner loves the praise. Whenever she does something I like I call her a good girl, even outside the bedroom, she is my good girl when she does something I like. If for whatever reason we need to be quiet (she’s a screamer) I’ll kiss her and whisper in her ear, how good of a girl she is being and that daddy is proud of her. She goes fucking crazy for it. Praise her, let her know you’re proud of her. Praise kinks are easy and a lot of fun.