My bf and I got into an argument because he went away on a work trip and came back with a Tinder Account. He keeps telling me that it isn’t him and that his friends forced him to do it, but we ultimately broke up. Now he keeps telling me he’s trying to work on himself and wanted me in his life, but I continuously see him active on Tinder and even see the notifications pop up when he’s at my apartment. He keeps telling me he’s not doing anything and that he isn’t using it but know he is. Despite it all, I still love him and can’t seem to walk away. Any advice or words of wisdom that can help me walk away?
I feel stupid.
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Just walk away. Cut all contact
If your friend asked you the same question what would you say to them? Do that. Be a friend to yourself.
How did you find out he had a tinder account? Isn’t the fact that *you* have a tinder account just as bad?
If you’re both still into each other maybe you both should agree to delete your accounts and do it at the same time, in each others presence, agree not to go on it again and then start from scratch. If you can’t agree or trust one another to do that, then just block him.
You need to kick him out of your life. Your failure to uphold your boundaries are just going to make this worse.
Ask him if he wants support for his dementia because his brain seems to forget how he’s using the app a lot-_-.