My boyfriend and I have a very sub/dom relationship, he takes charge 95% of the time unless I’m domming him. And we discussed me calling him daddy because that’s just what he likes to be called during sex, but I don’t know how to describe that I want to call him daddy it just feels weird or foreign, and I’m scared it wont come out right. It makes me cringe a little but just to think about saying it but I know o definitely want to say it, especially if it helps get him off. How do I go about getting over my fear?
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Relationships are about compromise. If you don’t like it, don’t force yourself into it. All it’s going to do is turn you down and might even affect your sex life because it’s unappealing to you
I would be ok with being called daddy, but I’m not an actual daddy nor I intend to be.
For girls, I feel like it’s much harder as most have an actual daddy, and saying daddy definitely does something to your brain.
I use to think this. But in the moment, it really isn’t that weird. And the influence, passion, and power he gets in the moment is worth it!
English language is about context.