i want to know if there are any interesting ways to do something with a dick when we are not having sex, just while we are cuddling.
because i really like holding and feeling it, i want him to enjoy the process too. actually, he generally likes me holding it, but i don’t want to bore him.
edit: omg, u guys r so cool. tnk u for ur good suggestions. excited to do all of them. can’t wait šš
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Scratch his balls for him
Make me finish and still rub it while Iām begging you to stop. But you donāt listen my beg.
Squeeze it gently like a stress ball. Then once it gets hard let it be until it’s soft. Then squeeze it again. Rub your thumb on his frenulum
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My wife does this almost everyday since we got married 20+ years ago. I am a fan.
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I like to caress them on their legs and stomach, getting closer to their penis and then caressing it, gently squeezing every so often
They seem to like when you lightly drag your finger tips over it
Could play with the ballsack
I guess I like it squeezed at the base, and wrap your hand and squeeze his balls some. A jerking motion usually doesn’t feel good to me, just squeezing.
Find out which ball is more sensitive? Idk š¤·š½āāļø do some helicopter penis
Any kind of gentle *presence* will work just fine in this situation,
– Gently resting your palm on top of him
– Gently closing your fist around him
And if you want to keep his attention, do something that *would* get him off, but at a speed that he would be able to last through hours and hours of,
– gently tug up and and down
– squeeze rhythmically
– let a finger gently trace back-n-forth in a flickering motion up on the tip of the glans
this last one will work extra well when you manage to get him to precum a bit, because the flickering is better when it’s slippery.
The last bit is a bit fascinating, because most of us have this thing where gentle stimulation will eventually (as in, after half an hour to an hour or so) become so intense that we start to really long for more to-the-point stimulation. The gentler you do it, the more of a sneak-up-on-him it will be, the overwhelming part.
And you can still insist on doing it slow and gentle, and all the subtle and kind of cosy things you have been doing all along are suddenly *perceived* as VERY intense. Funny how that works…
You can also twist this one around a bit and similar slow-cosy things with your mouth, or when you have him in you. Nothing says that oral or PiV needs to be over fast, ya know?
Like a trumpet. You have to blow hard to get me to make a sound…..
Like a theremin. Just hover your hands near it while I make sci-fi ghost noises.
Scratch the balls. This is the most important haha. We men enjoy scratching the balls like the dogs enjoy being rubbed in the belly.
How do I want my dick to be played? Probably Idris Elba would be my first choice, but Cillian Murphy and George Clooney would be no less good if he is unavailable.
It depends a lot on the dialogue and action sequences. My dick really deserves to be played three dimensionally, no empty tropes or stereotypes, a satisfying character arc.
Also, gently and luxuriantly around the foreskin and treat my frenulum like a clit. Too many people treat dicks like a fucken 1980s arcade game joystick, even as they complain that dick-havers are inept with them.
Mostly Idris Elba, though. Narration by Morgan Freeman.
r/cospenis
Maybe it’s just cause I want someone to do it to me, but so far I haven’t seen any comments like this.
Hug him from behind or be the big spoon and gently stroke it like the jerk off motion. To spice it up, cover his mouth and lightly bite his ear and whisper that you own him and he’s your good boy. (sorry for bad punctuation).
I enjoy it when a woman places the head of my penis in the palm of her hand and very gently slides it across.
Iāve had great results from lightly running my nails around the ball sack. Especially if you use your thumb on one side and index finger on the other, and sort of stroke the crease between the ballsack and groin area with your fingertips (hopefully Iām making sense!) Iāve been told itās really comforting but also a turn on
In E sharp, please!
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I dunno if this is a thing for other dudes, but I really like having my cock and balls just sorta bundled up together in a hand. It feels really nice, like being held.
Just holding it with warm hands is something I enjoy.
Like a skin flute using melodies from Ocarina of Time.
I’ve never laughed harder than when my gf at the time did the old suck ‘n lick while tapping my shaft to Hot Crossed Buns.
It took me a bit to realize what it was; then I couldn’t stop laughing.
Did I want that? No.
Did I think to want it? No.
Do I want that again? No. But I want a different song now lol