When I have plans with someone should I double check with the person that we are still meeting up? I do not like to have people remind me but maybe that is common. I had plans with someone and they no showed. They wanted to get together and promised they would be there. I haven’t heard from them. Should I send a reminder? I feel like they are a grown A person and should not need a reminder text. If they no show I think that is it though.
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Hey OP,
Others may disagree, but if I were your friend, I would 10000% appreciate it if you reminded me that we’re doing something. It would obviously be my fault for not having that responsibility of remembering, but sometimes life gets too busy. Some people are just forgetful in that way.
For instance, I was supposed to drop off a plushie that I bought for my friend (he goes to a college an hour away from me, and is rarely home). He came back one weekend, and I was supposed to swing by and drop off the plush. I totally forgot because of school/work priorities, and left him in the dust.
Reminding someone does no harm (I think). I could see it getting repetitive, but that means that you need to have a serious conversation with said person. Other than that, you’re being a good friend by going the extra mile to remind someone.
Yeah nowadays gotta confirm.