How well does a man half to know a woman/how many conversations does he half to have with a woman/how much rapport does a man half to have with a woman/how many dates does he need to go on with a woman before he should/can invite her back to his place?

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  2. Depends sometimes the first date has been at my place. Usually by at least the 3rd or 4th date tho

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    Depends on some things.

    * Your comfort level. You don’t want to invite a nut job home with you.
    * Her comfort level and how interested she is. If she is not comfortable or doesn’t seem too interested there is no point in inviting her back to my place. At a minimum I’d be specifying it’s a group event or we are strictly doing X and imply no sex intended.

    An invitation back to your place is assumed to be an invitation for sex. She may be keen, she may be not interested, she may get offended, she may get creeped out. So, unless you clarify it is not an invitation for sex, you have to deal with her reaction.

    If you get it wrong, error on the side of caution.

  5. I had woman which took 5 dates and others were there on date 1. Hell one woman moved in after knowing her for 2 weeks. (She was done studying and no job yet, was going to move in with parent and we were like screw long distance unpack at my place)

    So it all depends per person, if it feels good for it

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