i (22f) just recently started having sex with my new boyfriend (24m) after not having any intercourse for more than 6 months. the problem is it hurts too much when he hits my cervix, to the extent that he can’t go as hard and as fast as he wants to finish inside me (with protection obviously). no matter how much we lubed it up it still hurt. will it stop hurting as we continue to have more sex or is this like a medical problem for me? also he is easily 7 inches and very girthy as well while I’m very petite with a small waist if that matters in all this.
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You can try different positions. Depending on your position, he may hit it or slip past it.
You can try positions that limit depth, or there’s also cock rings or sleeves you can try that will do this automatically.
Look into something called *OhNut*. It’s a donut-shaped silicon-thingie that he should wear around the base, that “cushions” him so that he doesn’t reach as far into you.
A lifechanger for those who need it.
I like being on top for this reason to control how deep. I strictly avoid doggy style becaue it always hurts. I have a retroverted uterus which means it tilts the opposite way. Harmless but can hurt sex