men who left a great ltr to sleep around, what’d you learn?

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1. a great long term relationship is a myth.

2. Leaving was worth it rather than staying and constantly having to fight off an “urge” to be single and have fun.

   It wasn’t fair for me or her, so I left and I don’t regret it. I’m doing my own thing and I’m enjoying myself.

3. I didnt leave to sleep around, but i am having a really hard time sleeping aroundd anyways. FMl

4. Leaving was totally worth it. It’s a long ass story but she was entirely waiting for me to find someone else.

5. Left a relationship I wasn’t happy in to sleep around and ended up finding my wife. Safe to say it worked out.

6. It was fucking BRILLIANT! I’ll never do a LTR again!

   That said, my current temporary is going on 3 years.

7. Shit was worth it.

8. I WAS married and thanks to the dumb bitch cheating, then I got tf out. Moved across the country, discovered dating apps, bars, prostitutes…so yea traveling the world has (was) been interesting. Now some what settled in a 1.5 year relationship. Overall I can’t complain. Hoe did me a favor

9. I don’t regret leaving. I regret the way I did it and how long it dragged before I finally pulled the trigger. I put her through way more than she ever deserved and all she wanted to do was love me. I was definitely the bad guy. But I was young stupid and horny.

10. I learned that I really didn’t like sleeping around. Oh, the sex was fun, it was easy enough, but I figured out that I’m the kind of guy that likes to connect with someone. And bouncing from person to person was tiring and unfulfilling.

11. In high school and college I hooked up A LOT. Then toward the end of college “settled down” and was in a 8 year relationship, we were constantly fighting, and I was tired of having to ‘work’ for sex. I decided to call it quits and play the field, only to find that I didn’t belong on the field anymore.. It’s so true that when you are taken, people notice you and you get flirted with more. When I was in a relationship I would get hit on all the time, and thought I was just charming and handsome. When I was single, I wouldn’t get even glances and smiles and felt like Shrek. Ultimately I finally met my now wife, and I definitely have learned to not take that special connection we share for granted. Having fond memories of the ‘pimp I was’ is enough for me now, and I couldn’t picture my life without my wife and children.

12. Don’t stick your dick in crazy.