Lovelies, what makes you know someone is emotionally available?

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1. Consistency, openness/the ability to hold a conversation about feelings, & genuinely wondering how you’re doing/caring.

2. I wish I knew, could have saved me so much time and prevented so much heartache.

   Things are not always as they seem

3. They are vulnerable

4. Not so obvious: They are happy to support you while succeeding and ask about it. Got a good offer? Got a compliment? Did a good job at work? In my experience people emotionally occupied with themselves tend to restrain others and play such things down.

   Very obvious: They are talking about their feelings regarding a situation or decision they are telling you about without you asking them about it first.

5. They’re direct