I can orgasm by myself, but when my sexual partner touches me, it doesn’t compare, because I touch this specific spot on my clit (this spot changes too). Is there a way I can learn to come differently?

4 comments

  1. Relax make it fun. Don’t focus on the orgasm focus on the enjoyment of exploring new pleasure with your partner. Use toy fingers whatever. Some times if you are to focused on the result your body will deny you the enjoyment of the journey. So relax and play enjoy the time

  2. Switch up your technique when masturbating. You’ve trained your body to only accept your current method as good for orgasm.

  3. >Is there a way I can learn to come differently?

    Why would you think it would be easier to “learn to cum differently” than it would be to just communicate with your partner about where it feels best to touch you?

  4. There are a vast number of articles displayed when you google “clitoral stimulation techniques”. Maybe one of them will be helpful to you and your partner.

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