18 female
I wanna do it realll soon. So i need lots of help.
Are hand jobs easy? i mean i think you’re supposed to just stroke it but i’m pretty sure there is more to it. Right? Do i need to use lube ? I’ve heard some guys like it dry, some like it wet. Should i just ask him what he likes? I think that’s the best way to go idk.
If i do need to use lube… idk what to use i don’t have any lube. I have coconut oil at home… that seems like it would work pretty fine.
Should i use some mouth? I was think i could tease the tip with my lips and tongue. Again i’ve heard people say that a hand job is better with a little mouth and a blow job is better if you use hands. But i need more verification on that.
Last question. Dirty talk… I don’t dirty talk much… i try but i’m too nervous. It literally makes me lose connection and get distracted from the actual sexual moment when i’m trying to debate wether i should say what i want so badly to say or not. I don’t wanna kill the mood by sounding unsure when i say it or it just sounding back in general.
I usually just stick to the “that/you feels so good.” Yada yada.
Anyways. All help is appreciated.
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You can always ask him to show you or place his hand on top of yours to start!
I would do some mouth for sure and always ask him what he likes. And I would use spit instead of lube, you might have to use more but seems hotter to me. You could just spit or make it sloppy with your mouth lol but that wouldn’t be a handjob anymore
Hand jobs a little more than just stroking it I(20M) think. But I wouldn’t say they are too hard, however I would always remocoend asking you partner what he likes. However if that’s helpful for you I can tell you my own preferences on the topics you mentioned
You can start by gently touching dry, feeling around, maybe some fondling of the balls (very gently). Once he’s hard, wrap a dry hand around it and give it a stroke or two. Ask him if it feels good (reasonably certain he’ll just nod like an idiot or say fuck yea). Ask: would it feel better with some lube? If he says yea try some spit for a few strokes, then get some lotion or something.
Mouth, sorta up to you but sounds like you’re game, so I’ll reassure you that HE won’t mind at all lol. I love it when a girl does a mixed hand/blow. Tongue licks around the head, long licks up and down the shaft, tongue on balls, some rimming .. it’s ALL great.
As far as dirty talk, start simple if you’re a little nervous. Here’s the thing that most “nervous” people don’t get about dirty talk. It’s just saying what you’re feeling, with a different tone, cruder terms, and some swear words mixed in. That’s literally all it is.
Example:
Your thought – “I like how hard his penis feels”
Your words (Level 1) – “God, I love how hard your dick feels”
Your words (Level 2) – “mmmm I love how hard your cock feels when I’m jacking you off”
Your words (Master) – *stop sucking for a minute* “oh my god I love how hot and hard your cock gets when I suck on it. Cum down my throat. *resume sucking*
If you get to Master, he’ll propose shortly after he returns to earth.
Communication is key. You could try a water based flavored lube so that you can do some sort of oral along with it. Each guy is a little different.
There are plenty of videos online. Some guys like it slow to fast. Some slow all the way, some fast.
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Usually working the shaft up and down just below the ridge in the glans works. Faster when he gets closer. The head gets sensitive after cumming, so careful there. Some guys like the torment. Most do not.
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Have fun!
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It’s not just straight up and down. Try a rotate your hand slightly and if he’s uncut then maybe spit or a good cream.
DO NOT STOP WHEN HE FINISHES. Slow down after but don’t stop