If I wasn’t on Reddit I wouldn’t feel weird about it… but I see a lot of comments and posts saying how sex that lasts longer than an hour isn’t fun and is painful and an unrealistic expectation and how no one wants straight penetration for that long. I usually have sex with my fwb for at least an hour, and we have gone up to 6 hours in the past (including breaks for water/snacks/washroom). It’s not only penetration the whole time, like sometimes I’ll focus on him and give him head for a while or he’ll focus on me and just rub me all over for a while. But it’s still a lot of penetration (lol that sounds funny) for hours. He’s told me he prefers sex that is at least 20min because he likes to enjoy the pleasure, but that he could finish in like 5 min if he needed to. I feel the exact same way, I love feeling pleasure for so long it’s so fun and feels so great. Is something wrong with me and/or him??? Why do so many ppl say that sex isn’t fun to have for hours?? Penetration feels really good to me and being intimate with someone is so fun, if we didn’t have any responsibilities honestly we could prob be in bed all day having sex on and off. Is this “out of the norm” or something??? Am I a sex freak???
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If you’re both having fun then who cares how other people have fun? On the grand human scale of the 8 billion people on earth yeah you two probably are on the farther end of the curve, but if nobody is wanting anything to change then who gives a shit if you are literally the two horniest longfuckers on the planet? Are you neglecting family because you fuck too long? Are your jobs suffering? Do you stay up all night fucking then fall asleep at the wheel on the way to your morning Arby’s shift? Is your birth canal ground to a bloody pulp from 8 hours of dick plunging a day? If nothing is negatively affected then who gives a shit! Be glad you found a partner who you are sexually compatible with!
Nothing wrong with that
That sounds a lot like my wife and l. We’ve been together 18 years and regularly have sex that lasts over an hour. Some weekends we have sex on and off for 2 days [with snacks cudddes and sleep). We take our time and focus on our partners pleasure rather than our own. I have pretty good control and will last as long as she wants me to. I prefer the act of sex to cumming. I mean cumming is great but then it’s over. I prefer to take my tine and savior the whole (or hole) experience. I think this is the way. We have had a long and exciting relationship.
Nothing wrong with going at it for a long time. Sure, some people don’t like it, but that’s those people, not everyone. My wife and I tend to have sex for at least an hour. I’ve always liked longer sessions because I enjoy actually having sex, not just chasing an orgasm.
Why the worrying? You enjoy it, your partner enjoys it. I really don’t see any problem here. Just two people having a great time together.