Hi guys,

so I (21M) am supposed to go on a date with my friend (19F). We know eachother for a few years but were never really close. I have an on/off crush on her and from what i know she liked me at stages too, but she is scared of commitment and i never really went for it with her.

Last week me and her were at the same bar so i joined her group, because i know them too. Night went on and her friend were nagging me why i never told her that i liked her (she knew). I got under me and us two went for a walk and talked about everything, us, our problems, our dreams etc.. By the end she was laying on me and we had a really nice moment. Fair to add that she was more drunk than me, so i kept boundaries eventhough i felt she wanted me to kiss her.

Now we are supposed to go out on wednesday and well, she know that i like her so this i my shot to making it work. I would like to talk with her about last week and if it was just alcohol or if there is anything more that that. I dont really care if i get rejected (dont want to obviously), but i need closure.

I am starting to get nervous as i do around her more that anyone i ever liked so i would like to ask if you have some tips before a date to get myself in the mood and be relaxed. I will try to listen to my favorite music, pick nice clothes and go to the gym before. Do you have any special tips to setting the right mood and not making in awkward?

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