I (f23) was having sex with a fwb (m26). We were on our second round, missionary. I can’t remember exactly but i think i had been giving him a bj prior for a few minutes. We had probably been going at it for maybe 10 mins and then he kinda got soft and said his dick hurt. I asked if maybe it was my iud but he said it wasnt. And then he kinda went into the bathroom for a bit (maybe to wash his dick??) and we chilled and then started playing with each other again. And i gave him another bj and after like 20 mins he came again (both times i gave him head i was kind of edging him). And i was worried about hurting him again but he said it didnt hurt. I was at the end of my period, spotting… I likely won’t see him again as we are both moving but im just curious if different vaginas hurt guys…or if overexposure might hurt? Could it have been my period? Just wondering if this has happened to anyone before. Idk im not losing sleep over it but just curious about dick pain and sex. Thanks!
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How was lubrication while you guys were having sex?
Foreskin can get sore after 20 minutes of sex already depending on lubrication.
After 40-60 minutes, both men and women are likely to get noticeably sore.
After an hour, the skin might already start tearing slightly and being painful.
Especially as you get older and skin gets less flexible
It could be any number of things – too much friction and not enough lubrication is a prime example. If he was too hard for too long, that can be uncomfortable too.
Yeah! Too rough, not enough lube, tight foreskin, lube is incompatible. Loads of stuff 🤷🏻♀️
Yes dicks can get very sore. If not lubricated it will be very similar to a Vagiba