I think I’m good with texting women. But when it comes to eye to eye I bore them too soon. What can I do to change this?

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1. Stop being boring

2. Yawn. Next

3. I think some people come across better via written word than speech, and vice versa. It’s something you have to work on for sure. I have no problems writing/typing messages to people but I have to really try when it comes to verbal communication.

4. When you read the words you say, does the emotion of the voice inside your head, match your irl voice tone & your facial expressions/body language?

   If no, then that’s something you need to practice

   Sometimes the words you say in a casual convo are much less important compared to how you say them in terms of delivery

5. Talk to more women.

   Talk to more women in casual settings. In platonic and professional situations.

6. It depends
   What I do I literally would just ask more and more questions.. the girls I date tend to love to talk. Take a girl out for drinks it’ll loosen her up to talk more, and it’ll make you less awkward. Just watch her drink intake as well as yours and drink water throughout

7. Stop using chatgpt

8. People’s favorite subject is themselves, so use that to your advantage. Show interest in them, ask questions, listen actively. Get them talking and let them carry the conversation. This allows you to mine for information, and lets you wait for opportunities to contribute to the conversation instead of trying to be interesting all the time.

   It’s not about how interesting you think you are, it’s about how you make people feel. And they feel positively about about people who show genuine interest in them.

9. step 1: be handsome

   step 2: don’t not be handsome