What’s one physical and one personality characteristic about a woman that would make you not pursue her?

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1. Insecure and/or desperate for attention. What I admire most in a woman is a serene sense of self confidence. I cannot stand a woman who has a pathological need for reassurance and attention because she’s going to get it from wherever she can find it. I can’t deal with that.

2. Physical: Missing a head or a torso.

   Personality: Not caring about missing a head or a torso.

3. Way too masculine or some disability that affects in a major way, personality would be very rude to others or just doesn’t respect others, looks down on them or somethin

4. Physical : So skinny that her ribs are poking through and I might break her in half if I hugged her too tight.

   Personality : “Queen Bee” mentality that you have to be angry and aggressive constantly to feel important.

5. Physical: excessive tattoos

   Personality: boss bitch attitude

6. Physical:smoking- instant irrevocable NO

   Personality: inability to consider that your political/religious/cultural views (whatever they are) just MIGHT be wrong, at least enough to genuinely question you worldview every now and again.

7. Pursue her for what sex or dating? Bc just for sex I can look past far more things vs someone I wanna date long term

8. An hourglass figure and genuinely nice.

9. physical: morbid obesity

   personality: hating dogs but wanting kids

10. Fat, loud.

11. An offensive tattoo on their face, and not liking animals.

12. Physical: Too much makeup (you can tell sometimes)

    Personality: they don’t wait for me to put them on a pedestal and insist on doing it themselves

13. Physical trait: obese

    Personality: thinks she’s better than me. I want a partner not someone who thinks they can boss me around.

14. Physical: overweight Personality: no accountability

15. Physical? Tattoos
    Personality? Snobbish

16. Poor hygiene. I guess that’s both a physical and a personality characteristic.

17. Obesity and arrogance

18. Physical: Taller than me.

    Personality: Seems like too much trouble. Rather stay home and pound off.

19. Physical: Stupid long fake eyelashes. I wish women understood how shitty that looks.

    Personality: “Oh, I only hang out with guys. Other women are just too much drama.” When she says that, I always wonder why other women hate her so much. Gigantic red flag.

20. Looks angry 24/7, and overly bossy/aggressive.

21. Physical: overweight, if you can describe any part of her figure with “rolls” it’s too much

    Personality: university women’s studies feminist.

22. Physical = needless/overdone plastic surgery
    Personality. = wants a parent/child relationship where I take all the responsibility and she doesn’t even have a job!

23. Physical: Malodorous.

    Personality: Overly self-important

24. Physical __ Lagy gaga lashes

    Personality __ over dramatic.

25. Personality wise if a girl is just not smart and completely uninterested in learning or content with being uninformed about literally everything I could not deal with that