How to initiate sex as a female

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1. Unzip his pants while saying “I have a craving” then go to town but tell him ” don’t come” when he is nice and hard, jump on him and ride him hard. Works every time.

2. “Do you want to have sex?” “I’m horny let’s have sex” “Come do me” anything like those 3. Guys don’t give a shit about it being awkward we just want to see the effort.

3. People overthink this.

   It’s as simple as: Hey I’m going to the bedroom, want to fuck?

   That’s it. Simples.

4. I’m pretty sure this question gets asked 3 times A-day. Stop overthinking it just go kiss him and don’t stop kissing him he’ll get the picture or go sit in his lap.

   Guys don’t take hints well. Be direct. Literally anything you say will be sexy also consider asking the man that you’re wanting to have sex with. Get his opinion on what he thinks is the sexiest way to initiate

5. Ugg .. this physically pains me because I’ve been on the receiving end.

   Step 1: Do not overthink this (you are overthinking this). Simply asking if he wants to, is fine for your first attempt. After that goes ok, maybe elevate your game the following time by approaching him and unbuttoning his pants and giving him an impromptu blowjob.

   Step 2: Take that nervousness, mentally transfer it to an inanimate object, then burn that object. It is holding you back and you will ultimately feel bad as long as its with you. You have nothing to lose and lots to gain. Take control of your feelings, don’t let them control you.

6. So I’m the same way. It feels awkward to me and takes a lot of guts to initiate it. But when I do, I usually start rubbing his chest and slowly move my hand lower and just lazily move my fingers until he gets the hint. Or I say take your pants off lol

7. If I’m sitting next to my man on the couch watching tv, I’ll snuggle up next to him and start gently rubbing/scratching his back or playing with his hair, then look him in the eyes for a second, smile a little, then look at his lips and lean in for a kiss. Kiss deeply and with intent and he should get the point. If not, put your hand on his thigh and move closer to his crotch, sit on his lap straddling him and facing him, take his shirt off, kiss his neck and chest, take your shirt off, unbutton his pants, rub him through his underwear, by this point he should be carrying you to bed. But if he still needs more from here then kiss his neck and whisper in his ear how badly you want him inside of you. That should do the trick!

8. Grab him by his balls. That will do.

9. It’s amazing how people will smash their genitals together but somehow can’t talk to each other.

10. When my wife initiate sex, she always put her hand under my shirt and kiss me, works every time, even when i’m not in the mood.