When the pandemic started and we couldn’t go out I was in late puberty and as a mess of hormonal changes and imbalances, I developed a tendency to masturbate up to 3 times a day for almost 2 years. I also was in a relationship where my sexual needs were not satisfied and that led me to masturbate even more. Right Now I am 18 years old and in a really happy and healthy relationship with a beautiful woman. Our sex life is incredible and I have absolutely no problems with my libido or getting erections. But, it is really hard to ejaculate (Almost Impossible) If I don’t do it myself. Is there any way I can change this?
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Sounds like death grip syndrome. You conditioned yourself with masturbating with a tight fist –
Excessive masturbation in the past may have influenced your current patterns and preferences. It’s worth noting that masturbation is a normal and healthy part of sexual exploration and self-discovery. However, it’s possible that your body has become accustomed to a specific level of stimulation that may differ from the sensations experienced during partnered sexual activities.
You trained your body to need a certain type of stimulus. This isn’t uncommon. Usually, it is via using a very tight fist, masturbating prone, or in the case of females, using the water faucet or shower head.
Essentially, you create a sensation that is impossible for another person to replicate. All you can do is try to break the habit and retrain your body. I hate to say it, but you have a few days and experiences coming up as you try to break it. Potentially, even some wet dreams. It will be worth it once you break the cycle.
Take the month off from jerking. Completely resetting your sensitivity