\*\* FOR CONTEXT, WE ONLY SPOKE OVER TEXT\*\*
I felt like I put in effort, but I understand when hype dies down after about like a month, but then that seems to be when problems start. I love meaningful silence, but then the other person would treat it like Im not that interested after that honeymoon phase. In this specific relationship, I felt that I was about to be broken up with soon.
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And when I tried to give the other person space, they accused me of everything I just mentioned. I knew they had a lot on their plate at the time, I “should” have been in charge of what their emotional state was even if they didnt mention anything, except for just putting on an air of “dont talk to me” because all of their replies were curt and didnt invite much on my side. I kept mentioning wanting to meet in person since I obviously didnt get the full picture. But she had to cancel due to catching covid and didnt feel up for it anymore.
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I cant help but probably factor in their previous relationships that had him always on the abused side, but it felt like I was the one being gaslighted after a while, like he was trying to test me on some quiz I never studied.
\*\*TL;DR;\*\* I just remember it being easier to talk and have a conversation without thinking so hard but after a while, I just want to drop my guard and stop thinking on all sides. Could I have done something different?
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I mean I understand people start getting lazy with convos and I won’t sit there coming up with everything and I start getting bored of whatever’s going on, it’s fun at the start because you’re getting to know someone but atleast imo down the tract you realise they stop and you’re left either continuously asking or quiet