TLDR: Husband is wanting to give a sports team sign to someone who owns a bar he doesn’t frequent and has not been thoughtful to me

Sorry if this is all over the place. My. (40) husband (50) and his coworkers/boss meet up at a bar every day after work. I don’t have a problem with that because it’s kind of like the “office”. One of his coworkers used to run this bar and thus knows other people in the bar business.

My husband’s job is in construction and there is this bar that is being opened up and they did a favor to this woman and moved some stuff around in her bar. He saw other sports team signs there and told her he didn’t see his favorite team there. She said to him that if he had something from his team to put there to bring jt.

My sister gifted him a metal sign of his team and he told me that he was going to give it to her to put up.

My husband is not a thoughtful person to me, he has never come home with flowers, candy, a card, he doesn’t really like to go out and when we do it’s because I suggested it.

I was upset and told him that he doesn’t even know this person and wants to be thoughtful to HER and give her a sign? We argued over this today and I would like some perspective.

I know I probably left some information out.

2 comments
  1. The real question is why you tolerated your husband’s thoughtlessness for so long.

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