I’ve liked this girl for a long time and we both just graduated college this year. We’ve spent a lot of time together over the semester, to the point where it wasn’t just “friend” vibes, but I never reallly thought anything of it. For senior week, I’d go over to her place but we’d never do anything because I’m worried that if we do, I’ll become more attached to her without establishing anything and not be able to get over her (I’m moving to NYC for work and she’ll be nowhere near). The first night, we played some drinking games and then talked for a bit, specifically how she took my phone, took a picture of just us, and posted it on my Snapchat story for everyone to see even though I had no idea. I deleted them immediately because of the optics of her seeming to be my girlfriend when she wasn’t, but she did it again l, this time adding the heart emoji, and I let it stay up. The next night, we were together from 12-6 in the morning with a few friends. We swam in a lake, walked around campus, at one point carrying her up a hill in the pouring rain, and spent the rest of the night/morning just talking to each other until she passed out asleep and I drove home. Multiple times throughout the night I wondered if she was throwing more hints but I didn’t think it was worth it since we were both leaving soon. Sheen she came over to say bye a few days later, she wasn’t sad because she said she’d see me again soon. I could never tell if she was interested since we’ve both been described as flirty, but the past week seemed more than just flirty. Was it?
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Not seemed, overtly more.