I am still a virgin but very very young. I just had some simple questions because I am nervous and scared of messing up. I was wondering how do I please the woman as much as possible. I was wondering how to hit the clit correctly. I also wanted to know how to last as long as possible while making them feel pleasured. I don’t care much about how I feel and id rather have them pleased over me.
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Just be present in the moment and focused on the connection mate. Ask the woman what she likes and explore together.
Don’t have unrealistic expectations going in, or feel like you have to be some kind of porn star. Porn isn’t a reflection of reality.
Sexual connection is unique between two people and it’ll evolve naturally if you don’t preempt it all too much. Enjoy it all and have fun
First off- look at some anatomy drawings online- the clit isn’t really something you hit- its on the top of the vulva, not inside the vagina. Also- foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. My husband always makes me cum before he even puts it in, because he doesn’t last too long and once I’ve cum, I don’t particularly care how long he lasts, I just want him inside me.
The best thing is to communicate with your partner. Ask her what feels good. And please please use protection. If you care about her at all, you don’t want her to have to deal with an unwanted pregnancy, and you don’t want to take chances with STIs.
First of all, Don’t be nervous, take your time, you need to take care of her pussy, start playing with her pussy with your finger, making sure it’s not dry, while you are fingering her you can start gently kissing her neck, moving from her neck to her chin, don’t appear to be in a hurry. If you have any response from your fingering her then gentle like slip in another finger, rubbing her pussy and easily stroking your fingers in and out of her pussy, if you don’t know what the female clitoris looks like, just Google it and see what it looks like and where it’s located at, then with the tip of your tongue START licking it up and down, side to side, paying attention to her reactions,if you can’t wait for her to have an orgasm then slide your dick onto the top of her pussy lips, if she is wet enough then you will have no problem inserting your Dick,if she is not really wet enough or if you just can’t find the opening of her pussy, don’t freak out, merely ask her to help you get it in her, she won’t mind helping you because she knows what is going to happen. Don’t fuck too fast, bona petite