Yesterday my boyfriend was looking through my Reddit and looked at my comments and asked if I had deleted any. I said no because the comments I had deleted were about him and other posts I’ve made, and they were asking for advice and explaining what he had done to upset me or hurt my feelings. I said no because I didn’t want to upset him or hurt him.
He found out I lied and this is the first time I have and I feel so horrible. In the end I just upset him either way.
I keep shaking and having anxiety attacks. I love him so much and I never wanted to upset him and I did and I just want to fix it but I don’t know how and it’s so horrible I should have just told the truth.
I don’t know what to do.
Edit: I talked to him about the posts eventually (like what was bothering me.) but I didn’t want to bring anything back up or upset him.
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Tell him what you wrote here.
This is a non-bias place where people ask questions about relationships. It isn’t therapy but it’s fa form of problem solving and tasking. My gf has a Reddit and posts about me sometimes. I know show means me no harm and as long as there are no specifics then what’s the problem?
Why would he go through your Reddit history and ask you about deleted posts in the first place? Sounds controlling to me.