My bf put my pants in my mouth

27 comments

1. What did he say?

2. Sounds like he wanted to gag you but had to use what was available. Or it could be a denigration kink, except in those most people use panties for it.

   Have you asked him about it at all?

3. For those of us in the US: “pants” is the British term for “underwear” in case you were picturing a gentleman shoving an entire pair of trousers into somebody’s mouth.

   Wait…. new porn idea?

4. You see that a lot in porn when they’re trying to dominate somebody. You could call it a kink, but honestly, it feels like “copying stuff I saw in a video and I wanted to try it out.”

5. Hahaha sorry, but the image of someone stuffing a whole ass pair of jeans into a mouth is hilarious imagery

6. God, it is soooooo hot. If you love him, let him do it again and again.

7. Solely based on the title, I like imagining this as the ultimate wedgie. Up over the head into the mouth.

8. Panties in mouth. Hands on throat. Killer kinks.

9. Pants or panties? One sounds difficult, the other dangerous in long run.

10. Hahaha I was picturing full on jeans in your mouth!

11. They’re always the closest “fit in mouth” cloth available when girlfriend would get too loud in our old apartment. Not necessarily a kink for me, but I didn’t want her to cover her mouth or bite her hand

12. Seems for me that he was in passion, got a sexy idea (maybe remembered from the movie) and followed it. No big deal.

13. My bf does this occasionally., almost rarely. He’s not “stuffing” it in my mouth. It is fun, but I do spit them out within a few seconds. It depends on the sex. We like it but I wouldn’t say enough to say it’s a kink. Just some kinky shit from time to time.

14. It’s probably a gagging fetish, something that is quite normal in BDSM. But, doing something like this without your prior consent is definitely no ok. He should have discussed this with you beforehand to make sure you are ok with it. Just suddenly gagging someone during sex is not acceptable and anyone who just knows a little bit about BDSM would never do this.

15. My ex use to do this and we were in a Dom/sub relationship. Not all Doms are hardcore and scarey. My current Dom is more sensual. He may have similar tendencies. There’s a bdsm test on the internet yall could take and compare interests. Also just a good way to open up sexually w a partner.

16. I’ve put a partner’s panties in her mouth before cuming on her face. Nothing more to it other than she liked being dominated and I found it really hot. Win win!

17. Pantie gags are a simple humiliation gag. If they have just been worn and taken off for sex, all the better. I have been gagged this way with my bf aroused all the more by me having to sniff and taste my knickers. I’m not a fan, but it happens.

18. Stuffing underwear in someone’s mouth is to humiliate/degrade the “submissive” person. He should’ve discussed exploring humiliation/degradation kinks with you before just going for it and assuming you find it hot, though! Pants in mouth is quite tame, and it doesn’t mean that if he is into that, that he might be into something hardcore too. It’s one of the oldest tricks in the BDSM Dominant’s book and since nowadays there’s been a lot of talk about some women liking rough sex and dominant men, those elements have started leaking into mainstream porn, so it could be that your guy just saw it in porn and wanted to try it… The thing is, when it comes to kink, you should always discuss and obtain consent *before* you spring stuff like that on someone, no matter how tame it is. If he wants to be dominant in bed, he has a lot of reading up to do to understand consent first. Fortunately for him, there’s plenty of resources online.

    I like this “move” during sex because it makes me feel a bit silly and demonstrates that my partner has the power over me to do what he wants with me, even stuffing pants in my mouth. Like, with an orgasm, as I’m getting close he’d put my pants in my mouth and force me to come while I look absolutely not sexy or dignified haha. Sometimes pants can also be used as a gag, like for example if the sub is being loud and the Dom decides she needs to be quiet the Dom might just stuff the pants in the sub’s mouth instead of asking or commanding them. It’s playing with a power dynamic and can be really hot for both participants! My partner gets off on seeing my gagged face, and I on the other hand get off the physical sensation and the mental arousal from the power dynamic.

    Your partner might be kink curious – since you seemed to be ok and receptive to it, now would be a good time to sit down with him in a non-sexual setting and start talking about kinks. Something like “that thing you did with my underwear was unexpected, but now unwelcome. I’m curious, would you tell me more about where it came from for you? Do you have any kinks you’d like to share with me, because I’d love to hear about them. Maybe we can find something that we’re mutually into and could explore together?”

    Could be the start of a new fun chapter in your sex life.

19. who cares. he probably likes the taste or being gagged

20. Lol where I’m from, ‘panties’ is a term you use for childrens underwear…like come on little Bessie, get your panties and I’ll help get you dressed 😂 I’ve always been repulsed when I’ve seen American stuff with grown men talking about panties. We call em knickers, undies, underwear….maybe some of the younger ones have adopted this new terminology because a lot of the stuff they consume is from the US or similar.

21. There’s no need to apologise for other people’s ignorance

22. It’s nothing special, he must have seen it somewhere in porn and just try it

23. he has watched too much pornhub

24. Normal in the kink and BDSM world. Some people are super turned on by it. If it’s not your thing just let him know 🙂

25. Blindfolded… panties in mouth… cleave gagged… bound… everyday for some people… 😈

26. I did this spontanious along time ago.

    Took gf’s panties off and put them in her mouth and ate her out. She loved it.

27. Some shit he saw in a porn movie