Hi you guys I need help. I’ve been speaking to this guy for literally 13 days, and then one day he vanishes. No texts, nothing.
He was the one who initiated and insisted we stay in touch, so why would he ghost me? I dont know why but it has been weighing on my mind for so long, I want to hear his voice and I want to tell him random things. Hes on my mind often. I’ve never experienced this before. Why do short situationships hurt?
Any advice would be appreciated – sarcasm not so much.
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u feel hurt because of the potential and what ifs u were looking forward to. block him so u wont see his message if he reaches out again coz itll be no doubt that u will come back to him and that will only drive u more insane
sis pls save urself from this guy
>so why would he ghost me?
He lost interest and isn’t mature enough to communicate.
Get over it the same way you get over an actual relationship. Intoxicants promiscuity and time.
As another person said, it’s the potential that’s weighing on you. You’re thinking too much about what could have been and not accepting it for what it is.
He’s not worth your time. Let go and move on from this person. It’s hard, but it’s necessary for you to do.
Situationships in general are hard because they’re so obscure. There’s a big haze around you the whole time it happens and you can’t see clearly because the signals aren’t clear.