Is it harder to set boundaries with yourself or others?

4 comments

1. We are good at tricking ourselves,that being the reason we sometimes don’t even know if we have a problem with setting boundaries with ourselves or others .

   So that question is tricky to say the least .

2. in general, id say ourselves

3. It is tricky, because… the boundaries are not 100% for others, many times it is for our own protection…
   Meaning, sometimes you need to leave, the relation, the social event, the job, etc. that must be an option.

4. For me it’s harder to set boundaries with others. I’m on this sub because I have poor social skills. This makes it hard to set boundaries with others.