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Start making eye contact when talking. I know Tik Tok rotted your brain off, but it doesn’t mean you stop making eye contact.
The basics of chivalry. Opening the door for your partner, walking on the street-side of the sidewalk, etc. Also, the average airspeed velocity of an unladen swallow.
The ability to cook at least a handful of really good meals. Even if it’s just scrambled eggs or mac & cheese, take the time to really nail down a few things.
How to jumpstart a car or change a tire. This can be the difference of being stranded or costing you potentially hundreds of dollars, not to mention being immobile on highways is inherently dangerous, especially at night.
How to tie a tie. Sure, most can YouTube this as needed, but what if your phone is dead or no signal? And if you do know how, you’re also able to assist others in a pinch who don’t.
Fighting rarely, RARELY goes how you hope it will.
Lifting at the gym doesn’t mean you know how to fight.
How to use basic tools?
Skirt chasing will do you more harm than good.
The true nature of women.
The recipe for the Philosopher’s Stone.
Good lawyer and good earning is really important.
Off the top of my mind:
How to talk and treat a lady
What their condom size is and how to buy it
How to buy their own underwear
Dress themselves for different events: class, work, sports, dates, hunting etc
Pay bills on time
Say I’m sorry and mean it
Get a women off (if their into women)
Good personal Hygiene
Make a plan and stick to it
Or if plan fails how to be flexible
Eye contact
Cook at least one thing excellent
Know when to call in an expert
How to plan a date. Apparently a lot of men do not set definite dates with women and just get off the damn phone. They dance around, don’t take initiative, can’t select a place, can’t decide on a time, and will continue to just text around until the woman loses patience or does it herself.
I’m telling you, logistics and initiative is one of the biggest factors of success when it comes to dates.
She’s not your girl it’s just your turn.
Every man needs to know how to cook. To this day I think that’s part of why my wife married me. I know it sure isn’t for looks or size haha.
Don’t buy into broad generalizations.
Once your hooked women own us. Va jay jay
Dating apps are a scam
1. Where the exists are
2. How to drive stick
3. How to throw a punch that would knock out someone who is not used to get bunched
4. How to open a bottle of wine to “accidentally” splash it on someone you want to splash with wine.
Cologne is supposed to be a surprise, not a statement.
Never argue with your wife, you WILL lose. It doesn’t matter how right you are, you’ll lose.
Power from respect is hard to earn and is lasting. Power from fear is easy and doesn’t last.
How to fight, and then hope you never half to.
It’s ok to talk about your feelings and not to bottle everything up.
Don’t want to retread a lot of things I’ve already seen so far so I’ll add one I haven’t seen: a proper handshake. It doesn’t seem important until you shake another man’s hand and they give you a weak, limp shake. Proper firmness without squeezing, eye contact, intent.