What’s the current consensus on who makes the plans? Of course in the past the man typically would make all the plans for dates… pretty much always. (This always annoyed me; I like it 50/50, maybe 60/40.)
So let’s say it’s been about a month and things are going well. I like to throw out some options and see what sounds good to my partner. But, is this the norm now? Or do women still want the man to plan everything? (Maybe appropriate, rather than want.)
I like someone who has opinions on plans and will at least be willing to pick from options. Is that a turn off to women?
I’m not talking about a first or second date or anything. Just referring to once the dating has become regular.
What does Reddit think?
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Anytime of course but traditionally, you said “been about a month” and at that time anyone has a say in where they go to have a date 100%. If you don’t get to choose dates in where you are going, how do you get to choose in who you are in the future as a couple? Yes, you absolutely get to say what the date should be. Financially, be respectful if he is paying but that’s about it