I (28) met a guy (32) through a friend. Lets call him Peter. He had a girlfriend so I just hung out with all of them as friends. I didn’t flirt or give him any special attention. But I felt really comfortable with him. I met him a couple of weeks later and I saw he was checking me out while speaking to my friend. Later that night my friend told me Peter and his girlfriend were in the process of breaking up. We were standing at the bar – pretending not to see each other until he asked me what I was having and gave med a hug and said nice to see you again – just really polite. We were with different groups of friends and I was hanging out with another guy that was hitting on me that night. Peter was around but he never sat down with me or spoke to me after we met at the bar.
I broke up with my bf of 5 years about six months ago and I know it will take time to even think about someone or something else so I don’t expect anything or would never push or flirt while he is in a relarionship. I haven’t given any signals but I really felt there was something with him that I havn’t felt in a long time.
But I was wondering – is it all in my head? I can’t stop thinking about him. Can you feel if there is something other than platonic friendship between two people?