I remember a little while ago me and my friend were chatting in her car. I made a joke about being in the passenger seat and being a “passenger princess”. She laughed really hard at that for a minute and said she wanted to ask me something. She seemed really adverse to following it up though.
Then we went to Target so she could get a bikini for swimming after we ate.
I get home and we’re talking and she says that what she was gonna ask a sex related question. I ask if she was uncomfortable asking it. She says yes, to which I admittedly (and overbearingly) tell her she doesn’t have to. I remember saying that because she often talks about how a lot of guys make her uncomfortable when they bring up sex so I didn’t want to ask.
But I also wonder if she was hitting on me because she sent me a picture of her in said bikini. And of course that question. We’re pretty platonic nowadays though despite being close though.
It was probably a general question. I do wonder what it was but I didn’t want to push her.
Am I overthinking it? Not mad either way but yeah I was just curious.
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Your friend probably wants to sleep with you. If you want to entertain that possibility, next time you hang out tell her that you decided you do want to hear her question after all. The implicit message you’re sending will be pretty clear.