My wife and I have been making progress, repairing our marriage. Until this past week everything has been fine it seemed, until today I asked why she seemed off. She told me that she is pretty much relapsing to last year. How her feelings towards me are confused, that she’s tired of the ups and downs. We haven’t had any, other than what she may be experiencing. Our intimacy has came back, we enjoy each others company more, genuinely seem truly happy. She’s bringing up the concept of divorce.
However; bring her husband, I wonder if she has an internal problem. She sleeps from 10/12PM every until about 2/4 PM the next day. Unless she works, (bartender, 6PM-4AM) then that’s the only time the sleep isn’t as crazy. When she’s up, she’s glued to her phone and I can barely get her attention recently. She doesn’t help around the house at all, occasionally she’ll cook but that’s it. I wrangle the kids, feed them breakfast, lunch, dinner take them out to play, etc. I take care of our dogs, and all the chores. Dishes, laundry, yard and house work and work full time on weekends.
She struggles with depression, ADHD, and had her meds adjusted and added in birth control for hormonal issues. I’m not trying to pin everything on her but could she be projecting her personal issues onto our marriage? I love her with everything I’ve got, worked through a case of infidelity last year with her around this time.
She’s just throwing in the towel it feels like with little to no real discussion. I need help!
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Read your previous post. She’s checked out from the marriage for a while. It’s time to move on.