I’m on the bigger on. Nothing absurd or unfathomable, but enough to where it’s always commented on. I heard somebody at brunch complaining that if he had one more inch, sex would incredible every time, but idk. Maybe it is easier to get your partner there when you’re bigger, idk, but I relate to all my friends joking about cumming 30 seconds in, trying your damnedest you get somewhere there and it just isn’t working that time. Idk I don’t think it’s as big a game changer as some make it out to be.
For context I’m like 7.5 inches? Which I’ve luckily always felt happy and confident with. On the flip side I’m friends with a girl who ended a relationship with a really good guy because apparently he was 9 inches or so and simply too big to have a healthy sex life.
What do you all think?
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There is whats called the golden zone which is 6.5-7.5. My wife stopped having so much sex with me because after high school i didnt stop getting bigger and she could handle it anymore. Divorced now but there is a thing such as to big. U have to be gentle everytime and blowjobs are horrible.
As for profomance. 80% of being a good lover has nothing to do with ur dick. First u need to mentally stimulate ur partner 60%, Then all about knowing how to touch and playing into there fantasys and kinks 20%. As long as ur not a micro, women generally satifyied with normal as long as u do everything else.
Some are fond of it being the way it is, the idea & visually I suppose, but it’s farthest from the thing that attracts and keeps anyone interested. And a hefty torch means nothing if it don’t really…burn, y’know?
I am above average on length and WAY above average on girth. From my experience women seem to really love a thick cock, and they have been VERY vocal about it. Maybe I only attract size queens, but thickness seems to be very important.
So it sounds like your question is the eternal: Does having a bigger “tool” make for better sex?
And as a man who is also on the larger than average side, I say “it depends.” In my 50 years of life, I have had sex with just one woman and we seemed to fit together quite well most of the time, but not all the time. Women are subject to more physical changes and differences than men and how they feel things differs. The same moves, the same actions, can be felt or perceived differently every time.
There’s this perception that a man can just do the same thing every time and it will work and it’s all about size. It doesn’t and it isn’t. I would bet money that there are women very happy with a 3-incher and others happy with a 10-incher. And yet others who would be unhappy with either one. Also, I think the easy availability of porn has screwed with an entire generation’s view of what real sex is about.
It definitely requires more warm up before any pov, and can require you to be a bit more careful and can limit positions somewhat. Biggest drawback imo is her recovery time can be a bit longer and she might not be up to going again for a bit
Blow jobs are annoying. Also you learn that you really really really do not want to be hard in the beginning as otherwise 50% of your dates will end right there with “Fuck no! Get that thing away from me!”
My favourite position requires her to be quite aroused or it will hurt. It’s kind of flattering, but it makes spontaneous sex difficult.
Don’t understand this. If my dick isn’t enough, I’ve got fuckin arms and my wrists are thick AF.
Certain positions would be easier/possible if I was an inch or two longer. But that’s about it. Like I’d LOVE to be able to do the side/lazy sex thing but I just don’t have enough length to get up in there if we’re both on our sides.
On the other hand, I can go balls deep and it hasn’t bothered anyone. I’ve seen porn where the guy is so big that he only gets in like half way. That would be a bummer.
About no one can do a BJ for long unless they’ve seriously got a love for the act and really put a lot of effort/practice into it.
There’s some people it’s too big for, or at the very least, is so much work that it’s a hindrance to enjoyment and limiting in it’s own way. Like, needing a big silicone doughnut on it to limit depth so almost every position doesn’t end in pain works, kind of, but clearly this isn’t the ideal tool for this person.
Beyond that though….maybe I’ve just been lucky with partners, but other than that ^ one, they’ve loved it and I don’t think it’s that my technique is that special. Decent, sure. Exceptional, no. Large girth seems to do more than the large length, overall.
Average guys have it better. Too big or too small and you don’t get a lot of participants.
I don’t think I’m better off than a man with an average penis, knowing how to use it is more important than size. I guess the only I enjoy about being above average was the compliments I would receive before I was married lol.
Yep a girl that used to hook up with our friend group couldn’t even have sex with one dude because it was too big! Even when he was drunk had a softie and still couldn’t fit.
That’s the only time I’ve heard anyone mention size as incompatible
I’ve got the 7.5 but I’ve always felt it was small? My gf actually measured it but I think the reason I thought it was small was because of my hands. I keep forgetting I have huge hands.