If there’s any foreplay (which my partner and I love, so there is) I often get close to finishing almost immediately after we start PIV. I can switch positions and delay the inevitable a little bit, but almost every single time it ends sooner than I like. I also have a really hard time finishing twice – after the first time it’s often an hour or more before I’m in the mood again, and since we usually have sex at night that means I’m asleep by then.
Not an uncommon problem, I know, but a frustrating combination of issues. What can I do about this?
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You forgot to mention if your partner is getting off in that amount of time …or before or after ….and/or in other ways?
Repetitions and practice. When you feel that urge to cum building quickly, stop, tell her to stop and don’t move. My wife loves when I have to do it, she finds it hot. When you stop and start again it can build stamina little by little.