I don’t want to go too deeply into my relationship with him. But all I’m going to say is that every aspect of how twin flame relationships start and what they are is true and applies to ours. There is a connection like no other and I understand that he is meant to challenge me and help me grow and become a better version of myself. But I know twin flame relationships come with their own issues as well. It’s like looking in a mirror with him. We have similar flaws and issues and share similar past traumas and experiences. I believe that he is my life partner but I just want some tips on how I can ensure that we stay together.
How can I maintain a healthy long lasting relationship with someone who is a mirror reflection of myself?
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Is this one of thise twin flame things where he doesnt know you guys are together and youre just stalking him or are you guys actually actively dating?
There’s honestly only one option that can possibly ensure that you guys stay together. First, You guys BOTH have to understand why friendships fail. Because people change and get new beliefs and interests everyday. Which cause them to think that the other person is acting differently. You guys will not agree on EVERYTHING. But that doesnt mean you have to argue about everything. You guys BOTH have to accept that sometimes none of you are right or wrong, you just think differently. And the final thing, you guys will have to understand and accept each other, no matter who the other person might become
I’m a spiritual person myself. But when applying the twin flame label to anyone, things can get tricky. If there’s toxic triggers there or even abuse you can easily write it off and hold on telling yourself “but they’re my twin flame! This is my challenge from the universe!”
So ask yourself first if this is healthy. Are you taking time to get to know each other? Or are you rushing into things? Ultimately any relationship you still have to focus on yourself as a individual and work on maintaining your own cup. As does the other person. If you both share similar traumas you should both be individually working on those traumas. Focus on healing yourself, and see if you can both heal and help each other grow. Both parties have to be focused on growth and healing themselves so you can both move forward and have a stable foundation. Have outside interests and don’t rely on this person for everything. Take personal space and come together when your cup is full. Promise each other that you will always be working on yourself so that you’re able to present your best version of yourself to your partner.
Good luck and always remember you have *you* and you are your best ally and enemy. So nurture your temple first always 🙂