So I went to a club for the first time and honestly I had the time of my life. I went with some friends and while I went with kind of the intentions to maybe pick up a girl but I ended up forgetting because I was super drunk and only cared about dancing regardless with who.
I have so much memories of the night that were great but I remember seeing a girl at the bar area on her phone not really dancing or anything. I gave her a few quick glances and she seemed to look back but I didn’t feel too much of a vibe so I didn’t approach her. There were also a few girls in groups which I figured didn’t want some guy coming though
I also noticed a lot of the girls dancing near me were laughing and smiling at me probably because I was so into dancing and I’m an awful at dancing so I’m not sure I can recognize the social and visual cues at this point that a girl is open to dancing with me?
How do I go about getting a dance with a girl next time I head to the club?
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You walk up, ask if they wanna dance, they say no, and you keep it pushing until somebody says yes.
Buy her a drink, spark up conversation, then go from there.
I feel like step one would be try to spark up a convo
You see her on her phone, chuckle and ask sumn like “bored?”
Something really simple Yknow?
If she engages with the conversation, then you can ask her to dance.
If she seems bored of the conversation, then give a quick “hope you have a great night!” And go on your way.
(Personally, I don’t think it’s at all necessary to buy them a drink as an opener, especially if they’ve already got one in their hand)