So yeah pretty much what the title says. I’m 25M, she’s 23F and we just moved into our first place together. She came to me recently about not feeling comfortable in clothes anymore, and wanting to ditch them in the house altogether (Except when we have people over) I have no issue with that, and she’s been giving it a trial run for the past couple weeks.
Like I said I have no issue with it, but is this a sex thing? Is she expecting or wanting me to do something in responce? Or is it just a lifestyle thing, and I should just pretend like nothings changed like I’ve been doing?
Update: So I just asked her real quick and you guys were right, it’s just a lifestyle thing, and I need to work on communicating. Apparently though the trial run ended a week ago, this is just how it’s gonna be, and as long as she’s happy so am I. We agreed I have to be better at communication, but she made clear she knows I don’t hate her body, so no worries there.
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Sounds like a lifestyle thing. But why don’t you *ask* her?
It could be just a lifestyle thing. Some people feel more comfortable not wearing clothes.
But you really should ask her what it means because she’s the only one that really knows what she’s thinking.
Ask her how the trial run is going and then follow up with “out of curiosity, why did you decide to do this?”
If you’re living with your girlfriend, presumably it’s a serious relationship. You kinda have to learn how to communicate
Lifestyle thing, my wife and I are clothe-less 98% of the time. Love nudist places for that reason. Non sexual, just no clothing
I mean why would you buy a house if your not going to walk around naked in it?
People where clothes at home?
The hardest thing is also the simplest thing which is communication. Don’t be afraid to talk to your partner.
She’s a nudist… And?
I don’t see a problem if she doesn’t want to wear clothes at home when you guys are alone.
Is this not such a common thing? When I’m at home alone, I have boxers on, sometimes basketball shorts. Clothes are too constrictive lol.
There’s a Seinfeld episode about this. Lol
> Is she expecting or wanting me to do something in responce? Or is it just a lifestyle thing, and I should just pretend like nothings changed like I’ve been doing?
Saw your edit, glad you used your words
I see it’s been established this is a lifestyle thing but I’ve gotta ask… do you have sex more often due to it? When I’m around my wife naked I find it impossible to keep my hands off her. My mind would be going that direction all the time!
Is this her first place alone without parents or roommates?
When I got my first place – it was this just sort of big, airy old renovated hotel room with big windows – I would routinely walk around in underwear or naked or whatever because it was MY space (finally)
Why don’t you ask her or act on what you feel and see how she response
My first wife was a “closet” nudist in our home until our daughter was a year or so old. She always kept a kaftan available to slip on if a stranger stopped by.
We lived in the country so neighbors weren’t an issue, she’d even walk around outside in warmer months nude.
It’s was a great 8 years……from my viewpoint anyway. She had a fabulous body…….. Miss it.
Clothes aren’t just for modesty. Underwear are a hygiene issue, I worry about your furniture.
Look at her used underwear, that’s about to be rubbed on every surface of your house and you can’t throw your couch cushions and chairs in the washing machine daily like underwear.
Do you live in a warm climate?
I WISH I could walk around with no clothes on but it’s always cold in my house, even now in summer the a/c freezes me out!
Lifestyle choice, I’m the same way I’m naked pretty much 24/7 and it’s just more comfortable for me that way lol.
lifestyle. I did the same when lived in hot countries very comfortable.
Rip your heating bill
I mean have you seen women’s clothes? They are suppose to fit with a single number for a measurement and all they are are fake pockets and faux buttons. I don’t blame her
Sounds like a lifestyle thing. Clothes are so restrictive, first thing I do when I’m home or when guests leave is take off my clothes. Nothing sexual about it, just more comfortable in my own body than in clothes. Clothes are for going outside and having guests over, or for cooking. I do all the cooking in my house and the last thing I’d want is a splash of bacon grease or hot pepper oil on my doinker.
I like to be naked, or in a robe, in my house if it is just me or my hubby home. Nothing strange about it…
Well, no more fried food at home.
r/nudism would be helpful here.
It’s up to her, obviously, but I enjoy watching women disrobe so a woman being naked all the time would deprive me of watching her strip. But, no big deal.
We have not worn clothes at home for more than 20 years
I’m a home naked person too. Backyard as well as it’s fenced. So freeing. Everyone should try it.
I’d be nude all the time. Nothing sexual it’s just amazing
Nothing wrong with walking around in the privacy of your own home booty butt naked!
It’s a “free from the tyranny of pants” thing.
If it’s because she’s having trouble finding comfortable clothes because of her size, do more outdoor activities. 🙂
As a nudist, I don’t see why not. Good for you both.