My boyfriend and I are in a pretty intense BDSM dynamic, and I really want to work on my blowjob technique as well as working towards being able to swallow. I personally really struggle with textures, and imagining how slimy it will probably be really freaks me out. I do, however, really want to try it and experiment with it.
Has anyone else struggled getting over textures/tastes, and is it as bad as it seems? How did you overcome the hesitance and try it out? Overall is there any tips on improving blowjobs and getting it down? Lol.
Thank you!
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Lol no tips here but I’m just here to say I really want to try giving my first blowjob and I kinda am anxious on what it’ll be like to swallow for my first guy!! So I’m here taking notes too hahaha
He can change his taste and texture with eating healthy foods like fruit and vegetables, pineapple in particular. Lots of water throughout the day.
You can get throat spray that numbs the throat so that might be an idea. Or flavoured lube to help the taste.
Also if he cums when he is as far as possible down your throat, you won’t taste it, it will go straight down.
Also the quicker you swallow, less time it’s in your mouth, less of it you will taste.
As long as he’s well hydrated and has a pretty healthy diet there shouldn’t be too much of an issue with taste. I feel the best trick to giving great blow job’s is to fully embrace the idea of lavishing pleasure on your partner which would include swallowing
Do a lot of reading on triggering your disgust reflex. The words you say and think are critically important.
The texture is usually fine, unless it’s chunky 😭 that’s the only one that makes me gag. Like cottage cheese in raw egg whites.
But that’s super rare, it’s usually warm and silky and pleasant, texture-wise. Like a loose jelly.
Taste is usually not super great, so it’s weird that I enjoy tasting it because it’s more the eroticism than the flavour that I actually enjoy. “Salty” doesn’t begin to describe it. There’s an indescribable element to it that I’ve oddly enough only every tasted in golden gooseberries. And it’s super alkaline and makes the tip of my tongue go fuzzy and numb, almost like I’m eating pineapple but less tingly.
My tip for swallowing if the precum tastes bad (previews how the rest will taste so you can plan ahead for something less than pleasant) is to deepthroat while I swallow so that it all gets dumped straight down my throat without me even having to taste it in my mouth. Deepthroating also makes me salivate like crazy so when he or I pulls away I can swallow a bunch of my clean fresh spit as a sort of “rinse.”
If it’s tasting fine though I’ll let him cum however he likes, if he wants deepthroat he can have that or if he wants to cum in my open mouth, or watch it spill over my tongue and drip into my mouth as I swirl my tongue over his cumming head, I’ll play with it for him and gulp it hungrily. I like it when a guy leaks for a little after cumming so I can lick him clean for a while, squeezing the base of his shaft and milking out the last drops, watching them glint as they bud up in the hole of his tip, gently working them out with the tip of my tongue for that final taste. The way he moans and dirty-talks how much he loves watching that is just so addictive, I could do it all day.