Lately I’ve been pretty hopeless when it comes to socializing. I’m in a discord server that I feel a little isolated in and I’m too scared to even say “hi” without anxious thoughts. “They probably think I’m boring” “I’m probably being a nuisance”. Honestly this change is coming from the fact that I believe I truly don’t deserve friendship and that I must just be a bad friend.
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Ask it with a question afterwards. “Hey, how are you?” 99% of people will say hello back – followed with, how are you doing, back to you.
If anyone thinks you are being boring or a being a nuisance after saying hello, then THEY are weird lol. Get out of your comfort zone, and engage in convos, trust me your social confidence will grow.