Women who are SAHM, are you happy? Why/why not?

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  2. Yes. I love watching my children grow and having a bit looser day schedules. I like that i can enjoy my hobbies and pass my knowledge to my children. Being a mum was always my dream and here i am doing it.

  3. Love staying at home with my son. Unfortunately it’s held against me sometimes. I wouldn’t change it for the world though. I’ve been able to give my son the best start to his life and the bond we share is amazing. I hope we remain close for the rest of my life.

  4. Not really. I feel kind of useless, all those years of hard work in school (university) wasted. I love my kids to pieces but I feel a bit dumbed down right now.

  5. I am extremely happy. I always wanted this life, I never craved a career or the 9-5 life. I love that we have no set schedule and can decide on a whim what we want to do that day. I can totally see how it would be hell for some women, but for me it’s perfect.

  6. Yea and no. I loved being able to spend time with my kids and take them out to do fun things almost every day (zoo, splash pads, library sing alongside…), but I missed being an ‘adult-adult’ with adult interactions. Mom groups were good, but we always talked about kid stuff. I was able to volunteer in the schools and be there for more of the day-to-day ups and downs. But, somehow, my SAHM-ness translated to stay at home maid and perma-parent, and that impacted the marital relationship hardcore!

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